Marriage : Institution or Market ?

Can anybody answer this question that is constantly pinging my mind nowadays ?.The most fundamental query or you can call it a doubt Where is love ?? I can't see it, the only things I can see clearly are degree's,caste,money,looks and what not.I am struggling to come to terms with this but as everybody's parents might put it this way - it's a normal procedure ( i have only heard of mathematical and procedures & functions in C,C++ --- HOW CAN THIS BE A PROCEDURE YAAR SAMAJH KE BAHAR HAI !!!! ) you have to go through this or else bring one home and finish the job !!! (sounds very simple isnt' it !!).

Perhaps i might be exxagerating a little bit but it is true that this should not be the way even all my friends who are in to it agree at the back of their minds.But nothing can be done since we all are somewhere down the line "part of the flow".

Now that i have gone through a couple of meetings over a couple of months i am feeling OK i am understanding the PROCEDURE and all the PARAMETERS in that as well.Let me share this with u - honestly this is the most diffcult part or phase in anybody's life.

Is decision making so difficult (yes even if everything clicks at the hindsight ).All those calculations and even those small if's and but's play a very crucial role.The most fearful part of this is that - there can not be any kind of ROLL BACK.It's better to be patient rather than messing up things in a hurry ( hurry is there but still it can wait !!!! confusing is it :) ).

Anyways this a very personal,sensitive and emotional event so let me end it here itself - yes as far as the procedure part is concerned I can confidently say that :-

It's a procedure of a language called 'love' (so enjoy it and do it fast !!!!!!)


Bye !!!!!!